Definition of a Gentleman

by Robert E. Lee, President of Washington College, 1865 to 1870

The forbearing use of power does not only form a touchstone, but the manner in which an individual enjoys certain advantages over others is a test of a true gentleman.

 

The power which the strong have over the weak, the employer over the employed, the educated over the unlettered, the experienced over the confiding, even the clever over the silly Ð the forbearing or inoffensive use of all of this power or authority, or a total abstinence from it when the case admits it, will show the gentleman in a plain light.

 

The gentleman does not needlessly and unnecessarily remind an offender of a wrong he may have committed against him. He cannot only forgive, he can forget; and he strives for that nobleness of self and mildness of character which impart sufficient strength to let the past be but the past. A true man of honor feels humbled when he cannot help humbling others.

KA traces its beginning to 1865, when four men at Washington College, in Lexington, Va., decided to bind their friendship by a "mutual pledge of faith and loyalty."

Our founders sought to create an organization rooted in the highest ideals of the time. Those same traits of honor, chivalry, and gentility have remained timeless throughout the ages and are the core of Kappa Alpha.

   
Kappa Alpha Order provides a way of life significant to the development of young men.

Emulating chivalric ideals and genteel ethics, KA translates these timeless philosophies into the mainstream of American colleges and universities. These gentlemanly traits are the hallmark for men who have chosen our unique lifestyle.

The philosophy of the Order is that the acquisition of knowledge and the development of character are the great goals of life. Through fellowship and brotherhood, KA seeks to teach young men to be leaders; to be brave, self reliant, and to continually strive to better themselves.

   

From the very beginning, Kappa Alpha was designed to be an adjunct to and promoter of higher education.

Our primary focus is to ensure the academic achievement of all our chapters and members. This philosophy is consistent with a founding principle that the acquisition of knowledge is of the greatest importance. In fact, to be initiated, each member must have at least a cumulative 2.25 average, although some chapters often set even higher standards.

In addition, many chapter scholarship programs are reinforced with incentives from the Kappa Alpha Order Educational Foundation (KAOEF). Among the highest national fraternities in giving, the Foundation annually awards over $100,000 in scholarships to deserving students.

   
Fraternities will help you find your niche on campus . . . be your home away from home . . . offer resources to help you achieve your academic goals . . . encourage you to get involved in campus organizations . . . let you play on that winning intramural team . . . and give you a group of friends that will cheer you on when you're successful and who will support you when the going gets tough.
   
Through many experiences of brotherhood, Kappa Alpha presents incredible opportunities for growing, meeting challenges and building leadership. Should you decide that Greek life is for you, choosing a fraternity is one of the most important decisions you will make in your college career.

You have a serious challenge before you, because if you join Kappa Alpha you are not just another fraternity man. There is a direct obligation incumbent upon you as a KA, and you cannot do less than aspire to excellence. Kappa Alpha has enjoyed a rich heritage. Many men share in this way of life and its commitment to excellence. Its influence cannot be weighed or measured.

For our members, there is nothing more substantial or real than the vows they have taken, the strong bonds of brotherhood they have developed, and the personal growth they have achieved. Living together, growing together, and learning about each other in a positive and healthy environment, is what Kappa Alpha is all about.

After you've weighed all the benefits of joining a greek-letter organization, we invite you to take a close look at Kappa Alpha Order and make excellence your aim.

Kappa Alpha Order - Gamma Omicron Chapter - Lambuth University - 339 North Fairgrounds - Jackson, Tennessee - 38301